Thursday, May 1, 2014

Income and Breastfeeding

This is a post that I feel needs to be written, but I’m honestly nervous about how it will be received because it is such a sensitive issue, rife with opportunities to offend. Please understand that I have no desire to condescend, only to prompt thought and discussion. I welcome feedback and differing opinions, as well as more sources, information, and personal stories that will help to form a well-rounded picture of this societal concern.
Problem: Breastfeeding has significant health and cognitive benefits for baby, and health and psychological benefits for mothers, but those who might gain the most from these benefits - low-income families - are statistically least likely to breastfeed.

What is needed to successfully breastfeed?

Information: Mothers need to know benefits, how to latch, how to troubleshoot a bad latch, diet and nutrition, breastfeeding economics (supply and demand), newborn behaviors and hunger cues, etc.
Time: A breastfed baby feeds around the clock for at least the first month and often much longer. Establishing a strong nursing relationship and adequate supply may take trial and error. The mother also needs rest to recover from the birth and produce milk. Any other demands on mom's time can impede the relationship.
Support: Studies show that early and ongoing support (especially from other women and/or the mother's partner) is crucial to successful and continued breastfeeding. This can come from family, friends, hospital staff, support groups and organizations, etc. If the woman's social network lacks any supportive or knowledgeable figures with regards to breastfeeding, she is much less likely to attempt or continue with it.

How does income affect these factors?

Living conditions: A low-income mother is likely to live in an area with fewer resources available, like birth/newborn care classes that cover breastfeeding. Even if they are available, she may lack the time or means of transportation to attend.
Photo from this excellent blog post
Hospital: She is likely to give birth at a poorly-funded hospital with fewer resources to promote breastfeeding, such as Lactation Consultants, breast pumps, nipple shields, etc. The hospital may provide formula samples because its lack of funding will incentivize the acceptance of promotional deals with formula companies. While she is of course not obligated to use these samples, in the absence of proper breastfeeding education, she may feel it is easier (and more comfortable) to do so.
Job: A low-income mother may have a part-time job or work at a company with less than 50 employees, neither of which are legally obligated to allow maternity leave. This means she would need to return to work almost immediately to keep her job. Even if she is employed full-time at a large company, the standard 6-week maternity leave often ends before the mother's milk supply has been firmly established, especially if baby has spent any time in the NICU. Likewise, the mother’s employer may not fall under breastfeeding laws which require them to provide the space and time for her to pump, not to mention a place to store the milk.
Marital Status: She may be single or have an absent partner, meaning he would be unable or unwilling to provide her any support. Since the trend appears across several generations, the women in her family are less likely to have breastfed themselves, so they may lack knowledge and experience with breastfeeding, making her likewise unlikely to receive much support for nursing from them.
Equipment: Breast pumps can be expensive, and also require specific care, replacement parts, additional gear like bags and bottles, etc. Their use also tends to have its own learning curve.

What can you do about it?

Personal Support: Support the new, expecting, and experienced mothers in your life, no matter their income level. With sympathy and positivity, offer them your knowledge, encouragement, and friendship. Participate in organizations like La Leche League and Nursing Mothers Counsel, or join an online support group to share your experience with other mothers who may not have access to a local support network. Bake some lactation cookies for your sister, give your friend some soothing gels, and tell your online buddy how getting a lip-tie resolved saved your nursing relationship. And give a big smile to every mother you see nursing in public!
Activism (“Lactivism”): The current legal code discourages mothers, especially low-income mothers, from making the choice and attempt to breastfeed. I will not propose specific political solutions to this problem since we will all undoubtedly have differing views as to what is appropriate, but I will say: get involved.
Learn about maternity leave laws, breastfeeding laws, the effect of the WIC program on breastfeeding rates, lack of lactation management education for doctors, and FDA regulations for infant formulas. Share this information with others, find out where your representative stands on these issues (or if they’re even aware of them), and call or email them to share your opinion. Network with other breastfeeding mothers and advocates, attend events, and always be respectfully open and communicative about your choice and struggle to breastfeed.
Giving and Volunteering: Finished pumping but still have a pump in good working condition? Donate it! Consider giving to programs that support low-income families. If you’re feeling truly generous and are able to give of your time, think about volunteering for shelters and organizations that support new moms who are in tough financial and social circumstances. Breastfeeding is just one aspect of the overall quality of life for a new mother and baby, and changing the culture takes time, but this kind of mother-to-mother care will be invaluable for everyone involved.

The choice to breastfeed should be one that is available to all mothers, regardless of income or social status. For too many women today, not only is it NOT a choice, but it is a near-impossibility. What are your ideas to change this? How have you offered support to others? Are you a “lactivist?” Share your response and experience in the comments, and thanks for reading!


More sources:
If you read only one, it should be this paper
Occupational links to breastfeeding
Risks of Breastfeeding Cessation among Low-Income Families
Effects of WIC Participation on Breastfeeding practices
Nurse Practitioner perspective
Length of Maternity Leave as an obstacle
Formula marketing and legislation

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Wordless Wednesday: Pink Nursing at Work


Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Someone reported your picture for...

...containing nudity or pornography.

 This is the notification I got from Facebook 1 hour after I posted this picture on my personal and private page.

Someone I know, someone who knows me, looked at this picture and didn't see a special moment. They looked at it and saw nudity or porn.
I was shocked at first, then I was mad. I wanted to tell whoever hit report that they should have hit un-friend if that's how they felt. I wanted to tell the person how much this picture meant to me. I wanted them to know my struggles with breastfeeding. I wanted them to share my accomplishment for making the goal I had set for myself. I wanted to tell them the internal debate I had about whether to post this picture in the first place.
When I booked my daughters pictures for her first birthday I thought about the kind of pictures I wanted. Of course we needed smash cake ones, and ones of her in her birthday dress. When my husband mentioned that he wanted pictures with her I realized that so did I. I had cried a lot in the days leading to her birthday, we survived a year with 2 kids, we watched the most beautiful baby become a little girl, and I made my goal of no formula. I did it! Through slow weight gain,a case of yeast, mastitis twice, I had nourished her mainly with my milk. Just like any accomplishment I wanted a picture to capture it.


When I got the disc with all the birthday pictures,and I saw the look in my girls eyes as she nursed my heart felt happy. Then I debated with myself. Do I put this picture on my Facebook page? I started slow, first my breastfeeding support group, then my local mom group. In the back of my head all I could think was "Do it! This is huge part of who you are, this is how you feed your baby. If this was a bottle in her mouth instead of a breast no one would bat an eye." I took the plunge and posted it along with the rest of her birthday pictures. I'm not sure what I expected, but I can tell you having a friend of family member report it wasn't it.

The upside (and thank goodness for great friends) is the response I got when I called the person out.

To the small minded family or friend who reported my breastfeeding picture. I have breasts. I use my breasts to feed my child. I'm proud of my accomplishment in using my breasts to nurse her this long which was neither easy or without personal sacrifice. A nursing mother is not obscene or immoral in any way. I'm not going to hide because breasts make you uncomfortable. Feel free to remove yourself from my friends list because I don't have time for your b.s.

Before I knew it so many of my friends stood by me. My mom friends, male friends, child free friends, formula feeding friends. They ALL made me cry again and they showed their love and support for me. Because of that I will never be afraid to show who I am , a proud breastfeeding mommy!

Friday, April 25, 2014

Nourishment for the Soul

Everyone knows all the benefits to babies and toddlers when nursing, and many people are starting to recognize benefits to mothers more often. The list is lengthy and includes everything from physical to emotional benefits. It's obvious that nursing provides nourishment to our children, helping them grow up strong and healthy. But did you consider that nursing could also be nourishment for your soul?

I recently lost my grandpa and was extremely sad during the time surrounding his unexpected passing. Nursing provided comfort to me in a way I hadn't imagined before. Taking the time to slow down and nurse my daughter allowed me an opportunity to stop and make time for things I've neglected too often lately.

I was able to find comfort in slowing down, nourishing my daughter, and letting myself reminisce. My grandpa was a good, hard-working Catholic and I wanted to honor his memory. I started praying the rosary while I would nurse Nora. I must admit...I'm normally multitasking on my phone while nursing these days. Gone are the days when I would just stare in awe at my sweet girl while she suckled milk. After 14 months of breastfeeding, I don't give it my full attention like I once did. Taking the time to slow down and redirect my focus was something I really needed.

Photo Source

I was getting to a point where constantly nursing Nora during the day would be frustrating at times. Losing my grandpa reminded me of the important things in life. We don't know how long each of us will have with our loved ones, so it is important to never take the small things for granted. I'm so fortunate to still be nursing Nora and providing the perfect nourishment for her little body. I am also fortunate that breastfeeding provides nourishment to my soul and reminds me of life's precious gifts.

Taking a break from nursies

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Wordless Wednesday: A Comprehensive Approach to Breastfeeding Support